Goodnews! June 2002
Dear Readers,
Welcome to our 3rd issue of GOODNEWS. We apologize for getting this issue to you so late.
We have lots of exciting news to share with you: an uplifting story from one of our clients, a poem by Charlotte Tall Mountain, news about an amazing theatre in Toronto, excerpts from an article about the effects of T.V. on the developing brain by Joseph Chilton Pierce and more.
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TECHNIQUES
Added Value
I just had a lovely conversation with a telemarketer from Rogers Cable. "What!", you say, "a pleasant conversation with a telemarketer! From Rogers Cable! Impossible!"
Most of us get annoyed with telemarketers, especially when they represent big, aggressive companies. This conversation went well because I was in a playful mood and used a technique I call Added Value. The inspiration for this technique comes from Neuro Linguistic Programming. Here’s how it works.
At the start of the day, give yourself the task of adding to the personal happiness of each person you encounter throughout the day. Whomever you meet, do your best to add to the other person’s feeling of contentment and positive self-concept. You can do this through your tone of voice, a smile, or even a silent blessing wishing them well. The message you want to communicate is that you accept them for who they are. You will be amazed at the results. This could be the secret to creating the happiest day in your life. Imagine having one of those every day! According to the Law of Karma, whatever you send out, you get in return. As you add to another’s feelings of happiness and well-being, you add to your own.
Here is another technique. This one comes from Hawaii. If you see something in another person that you want for yourself, i.e., a personality trait, a physical characteristic or an object, silently bless the "owner". For example, if you see someone with an expensive car, bless the owner, silently saying "I bless you for attracting a beautiful car into your life". Or " I bless you for your beauty" or "I bless you for your success in business". Whatever you admire in another person, bless them for it. Through your blessing you acknowledge their ability to attract those gifts to themselves. Thanks to the Law of Karma, you will attract those same gifts to yourself.
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For Love of the World
by Charlotte Tall Mountain
For the love of a tree, she went out on a limb.
For the love of the sea, she rocked the boat.
For the love of the earth, she dug deeper.
For the love of community, she mended fences.
For the love of the stars, she let her light shine.
For the love of spirit, she nurtured her soul.
For the love of a good time,
She sowed seeds of happiness.
For the love of the Goddess,
She drew down the moon.
For the love of nature, she made compost.
For the love of a good meal, she gave thanks.
For the love of family, she reconciled differences.
For the love of creativity,
She entertained new possibilities.
For the love of her enemies,
She suspended judgment.
For the love of herself,
She acknowledged her worth.
And the world was richer for her.
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Art by Melinda Matzell. This image is available as a poster (P493CW), framed poster (FP493CW) and postcard (T752CW) through Syracuse Cultural Workers, telephone (877) 265-5399. scw@syrculturalworkers.org
YOUR STORIES
Each issue features one or two success stories, story clients have shared with us about important changes they've made in their lives. The stories are a witness to the client’s belief in themselves and their commitment to achieving their goal. They are a demonstration of their willingness to change and grow.
Sometimes the changes take place almost immediately. More often, they occur gradually over months or years. Always they have inspired us. Thank you for allowing us to support you on your journey. We establish the framework to facilitate change, but it is you, in the co-creative process, who make it happen. For this we celebrate you.
If you would like to have your story featured in an upcoming issue, please let us know.
She’s Never Been Happier!
Noëlle’s story:
It would be difficult to tell Noëlle’s story without reference to her origins. The first nine months of Noëlle’s s life were spent in an orphanage in Haiti, an orphanage set up in the midst of a violent coup and stretched far beyond its means. Violence in her home country was a daily occurrence. In her first few months of life, Noëlle did not receive the love and tactile stimulation (she was not held) that is every child’s birthright. Undersized, underdeveloped and with a serious heart condition, she gave no signs of asking for food.
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According to Eric Erikson’s Stages of Development, the first 18 months of a child’s life is a time when children, based on their life experience, decide whether or not the world is a safe place to live in. Feelings of trust vs. mistrust get established at this time. A child brought up in a safe and nurturing environment becomes a person who is able to have a realistic trust of themselves and others, to have confidence in others, to be optimistic and hopeful, to share openly with others and to relate to others effectively. Children brought up in an environment were their personal safety is an issue, often feel suspicious of others, are afraid of being criticized, express general feelings of dissatisfaction and hostility, and have a tendency to withdraw from others.
At the age of nine months Noëlle was adapted by dedicated and loving parents who were able to recognize her potential and commit to giving her the support she needed to develop fully and completely.
We began working with Noëlle in November 2000 when she was nine and a half years old. At that time she was in grade 3 at a French language school.
Looking back on that first visit, here are some of the concerns the parents had for Noëlle:
Trust: Noëlle seemed to be rejecting her adaptive mother. She did not feel that she truly belonged with the family. She was obsessed with death, talking about it constantly. She was convinced that her birth mother had died.
School: Noëlle was not doing well in school. She worked well with her tutor of one year, but easily got frustrated in school. She had difficulty working independently and her parents felt she was not getting the support she needed. Noëlle often came home from school in tears. She had low
self-esteem and did not believe she could achieve the work required of her. She did not want to go to school.
Socially: Noëlle was having trouble making friends. She felt that other children picked on her, that her friends were mean to her.
Self-concept and attitude: Noëlle had a poor self-concept. She believed no one love her because she was black. She had difficulty finding her place in world. She had many fears and phobias, was afraid of noises and could get hysterical. She often got stuck in a negative way of thinking.
Today: Noëlle is a happy, self-confident child. She switched to a smaller school in March 2001 and had little trouble adjusting. She enjoys learning, can work independently and is progressing in reading and math. Her verbal skills have improved and she can now express herself more easily. She feels accepted by her peers, is making new friends and no longer feels she is a victim. She starts the day off with a positive attitude and looks forward to going to school. Her qualities are acknowledged and appreciated at school and she is beginning to recognize her own gifts.
Perhaps the biggest change Noëlle has made has been her acceptance of herself and her family. She accepts and appreciates her blackness, no longer carrying the burden of Haitian history with her. She feels connected to her family members and this trust is allowing her to be more independent. She is now able to go outside and play with friends without letting her fears stop her. Recently, for the first time she slept overnight at a cousin’s home without her family being with her.
A visit to family in France last summer was a demonstration of the changes Noëlle has made. Her French family noticed a huge difference, remarking that Noëlle was an interesting child to be with. Prior to this time they had experienced a child who had one crisis after another.
Noëlle looks forward to her sessions, preparing for them ahead of time. She often brings presents or some of her own toys to share. She enjoys telling about what has changed in her life, her recent successes, and the goals she has for the session. On the eve of her eleventh birthday, she feels empowered, aware of her unique gifts and able to share them with the world. Her mother comments that the work we have done together has allowed Noëlle to go to the source of her difficulties. She is grateful.
Notes on the sessions:
We saw Noëlle for a total of 10 sessions1 from November 2000 to May 2001. Visits were weekly for the first month, bi-weekly for the next two months and monthly for the remaining two. After a three-month break for the summer, we have continued to see Noëlle on a monthly basis.
Our initial work focused on clearing emotions, in particular those related to her birth. Noëlle responded well. Her parents noticed that she was more loving and seemed to feel more like she "belonged" with the family.
In the second session the Dennison Laterality Repatterning2 technique was introduced. We asked Noëlle to practice the repatterning at home twice daily3.
We continued clearing emotions, did some structural corrections and energy balance. We then concentrated on detoxifying the system and gave some advice regarding nutrition and supplements.
Then came a big piece around being black. Noëlle was struggling with the question: "What color is God?" More emotional clearing followed as we realized that Noëlle was dealing with the whole issue of victimization experienced by Blacks at the hands of Whites oppressors. This had at least three ramifications. First, it made her feel "not beautiful" since, to be beautiful is to be "white", secondly, it more her feel inferior, and third, it prevented her from feeling that she was part of her family.
As Noëlle continued to make important changes within, it became evident that her present school setting was no longer appropriate. Her parents started looking for other options and found a school they felt would better meet their needs. They decided to switch to another French language school after March break. Noëlle made the transition to her new school with ease. Soon after, her reading began to improve.
Two issues continued to be of major concern. Noëlle got stuck in negative ideas and she was easily influenced by others. We found that spiritual corrections4, further nutritional modifications and meridian balances helped her make a shift.
The next major change Noëlle made was related to her self-confidence. She came up with the affirmation: "I believe in me. I can be anything I want to be." Emotional clearing, more energy work and a technique from Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP)5 allowed Noëlle to integrate these new affirmations. In the NLP procedure you identify a resource state (for Noëlle it was dancing), a situation in which the client is fully in touch with their resources, and a stuck state (for Noëlle it was being at school). You overlap the two resulting in the resource state being generalized to the stuck state. In NLP terms this is called "collapsing anchors". It operates much like a conditioned response: Noëlle was learning that she could stay in her resource state, no matter where she was, including while in school.
Noëlle is now doing Brain Gym® movements at home on a daily basis. She has also started to go for chiropractic treatments. At her last session her mother remarked on how pleased she was with the results. Her comment: "She’s the happiest she’s ever been."
Footnotes:
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Based on our initial assessment, we often recommend a package of 10 sessions to achieve the goals outlined by our client. Our experience has been that within 10 sessions, clients are able to reach their goals. They are often surprised at how easily and quickly positive changes take place.
(2)
Dennison Laterality Repatterning is one of two
repatterning techniques taught in the Brain Gym Diploma
course. This technique activates the neurological networks across the corpus callosum which separates the right and left hemispheres. This results in the integration of both eyes, ears and hemispheres and improves coordination of both sides of the body. For further information see http://www.jagostabraingym.net. Click on Brain Gym.
(3)
For best results this repatterning technique should be
done twice daily for 10 week. This is usually the time it takes
to create new neurological networks in the brain.
(4)
There are different ways of describing our spiritual self: the"god-element" within, that aspect of ourselves which goes beyond the physical body and can connect with all that exists, our inspirational self which guides us throughout our life and realizes we have a unique mission in life.: spiritual corrections help to reconnect us with our spirit.
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A set of techniques developed in 1970's by John Grinder and Richard Bandler
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Stabilizing in Chaos1
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The Earth is moving through a time of monumental changes
in which energies are fluctuating at rates never experienced
by humanity before. Many of these changes are chaotic in
nature, and especially challenging to the emotional body.
Consequently, our emotions seem to be all over the place.
Whenever any system moves from one level of order to a
higher level, there is a period of chaos in which
perturbations are on the increase. This is now happening
on Earth at all levels-atomic, molecular, biological,
geological, social, economic, etc. are in states of flux or
change. The Hathors offer us a technique to help our
emotional body become more stable through this period of
tremendous transition. This technique is in three parts. We
offer the third and final part below. For Parts A and B, see Goodnews Oct. 2001 and January 2002 respectively.
Previous.
Footnotes:
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From The Hathor Material, Messages from an
Ascended Civilization by Tom Kenyon and Virginia
Essene, S.E.E. Publishing Company, Santa Clara,
California, 1996.
Self-Mastery Exercise
Part C
You are ready to begin Part C when you fully land clearly feel the sensation of prana moving through the pranic tube and out into the physical body.
Step 1: Now place your awareness in the heart chakra at the center of the chest. Recall a feeling of unconditional love and acceptance. Make sure you’re actually feeling this state. Thinking about it will not do1.
Step 2: With your awareness in the heart center and holding the feeling-state of unconditional love and acceptance, inhale and draw up from the Earth into your pranic tube. Hold the breath for a moment as you focus on the pranic tube, still holding the feeling-state of love and acceptance. When you exhale, move your awareness into the physical body and allow the "qualified prana" to move out from the pranic tube into the entire body.(see diagram)

Step 3: Return your awareness to the heart center and, holding the feeling-state of unconditional love and acceptance one again, inhale and draw prana down from the space above your head into the pranic tube. Hold the breath for a moment, and focus on the pranic tube, still holding the feeling-state of love and acceptance. When you exhale, move your awareness into the physical body and allow the "qualified prana" to move out from the pranic tube into the body.
Diagram: The heavenly and Earthly energies move into the pranic tube and then to the heart center or chakra. The "qualified" energies are then circulated throughout the body.
This exercise will both strengthen your life force and your sense of wellbeing.
Footnotes:
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If you have not experienced true unconditional love or unconditional acceptance, continue to work with the first two parts of the exercise, and don't worry about qualifying the energy for now. As you continue to work on your own personal and spiritual development, you will find it much easier to access the feeling-states of unconditional love and acceptance at a later date.
UPCOMING WORKSHOPS
Brain Gym® Diploma Course:
October 19/20 and October 26/27, 2002
We are now accepting registrations for this wonderful course. It is especially useful for parents, teachers and practitioners.
For further information on any of our workshops, please visit our website
http://www.jagostabraingym.net/workshops/workshops.html or contact us at
(519) 822 4491. There will be no workshops during the summer months. We would, however, encourage you to visit the web site of The Elm Tree Centre which has a full schedule of activities for the summer:
http://www.elmtreecentre.com/
THOUGHTS
Worth Sharing
ARTICLE: Children and TV
The following is an excerpt from the article "Children and TV" by Chris Mercogliano and Kim Debus from JOURNAL OF FAMILY LIFE magazine, Vol. 5#1 1999.
For nearly half a century Joseph Chilton Pearce has been probing the mysteries of the human mind. Author of "The Crack in the Cosmic Egg," "Exploring the Crack in the cosmic Egg," "Magical Child," "Magical Child Matures," "Bond of Power" and Evolution’s End," one of his overriding passions remains the study of what he calls the unfolding of intelligence in children. He is a self-avowed iconoclast, unafraid to speak out against the myriad ways in which contemporary American culture fails to nurture the intellectual, emotional and spiritual needs and yearnings of our young people. Part scholar, part scientist, part mystic, part itinerant teacher, Joe keeps in close touch with the most brilliant men and women in each field of inure relevant to his guest. He creates a unique synthesis of their work and translates the results into a common language.
In response to the question, ". . .what is television doing to our children?", Joe’s says:
"Television literally prevents neural growth in the developing brains of children. When young children watch too much, it suppresses the capacity of their brains to create an internal image of something, or someone, or some event not presented to the sensory system by the environment, which is the essence of what we call imagination. Researchers used to think that it was only the content of the programming that was negatively affecting children. Now we have ample evidence that the technology of the device is very harmful in and of itself. In other words, the simple act of watching television has profoundly negative effects on the physiology of human beings."
Children’s minds go catatonic
"In the early 1960’s . . .it was discovered that kid’s minds go catatonic in front of the tube. This has to do with the way that the brain reacts to radiant light, which is the light source of television and computer monitors, and reflected light, which is what brings us the rest of our visual experience. . . the brain tends to close down in response to radiant light sources. Children get hypnotized when they watch television for any length of time."
The startle effect
". . .the television industry countered this effect by introducing . . startle effects into children’s programming. A startle effect is anything that triggers the brain into thinking that there might be an emergency out there and alerts it to pay special attention to the source of the disturbance.
Television accomplishes this with sudden and dramatic changes of intensity of light or sound and a rapid shifting of camera angles. Eventually, however, the brain starts habituating itself to the situation, realizing that these are just false alarms, and it starts to tune out again. As a result, every ten years or so the television industry has had to up the ante by making the startles bigger and bigger, until finally what we have are periodic bursts of violent imagery in children’s cartoons and so on, to the point now where there are an average of sixteen bits of violence every half-hour. Here the nature of the program content does matter. While the higher brain, or neocortex, knows that the images on TV aren’t real, the lower, or reptilian brain does not. This means that when a child views violence on television, the reptilian brain sends a series of alarm messages up to the emotional brain (limbic system), which in turn immediately contacts the heart. The moment the heart receives any indication of negativity or danger, it drops out of its usual harmonic mode into an incoherent one, triggering the release of the single most potent hormone in the human body, known as cortisol. Cortisol instantly wakes up the brain and causes it to produce trillions of neural links in order to ready the individual to face the emergency. . . .The trouble with current-day children’s television programming is that there’s never any letdown, and the brain of the average American child, who has watched 5000 to 6000 hours by the age of five or six, is suffering a great deal of confusion as a result. The massive over-stimulus from TV is causing the brain to maladapt in ways previously thought impossible. It is literally breaking down on all levels of neural development."
Conclusions supported by Research
". . .The German Psychological Institute has conducted a twenty-year study of 4000 children per year, children who have watched the average 5000 to 6000 hours of television by the age of six. . .The most serious change they uncovered was a breakdown of the brain’s ability to cross index its whole kinesthetic/sensory system.. . .more and more children’s sensory systems are acting as isolated components in the brain and less and less as coordinated whole gestalts.
When they place the young test subject in a natural environment that had no high-density stimuli, such as those which come from television, they grew very anxiety-ridden, bored and tended toward violence. . . .there has been . . .a 20% reduction in the children’s awareness of their natural environment."
Joe posits that research points to the desensitization of children exposed to inappropriate stimuli from television, rock music and computers. Computers have the same debilitating effect on the mind as television. In one study, three groups of fourth grade students were asked to read a single page from a textbook. Twenty minutes later they were tested on comprehension and retention. Students who had read a paper copy showed 85% comprehension and retention of the material. Those who studied it on a movie screen scored between 25 and 30%. Those who read the same text on a TV monitor scored only between 3 and 5%. Numerous tests were carried out, mixing the groups up and testing them again with different pages from the book, in every case the retentions and comprehension were identical.
Joe was asked to attend a computer conference at the University of California at Berkeley during which twenty-one experts from all over the world spent four days discussing the computers-in-education issue. He says that at that conference "one professor from MIT made the passionate plea that we must encourage children to develop the ability to think first, and them give them the computer. . . if you introduce the computer before the child’s thought processes are worked out, then you have disaster in the making. This is because, as Piaget pointed out, the first twelve years of life are spent putting into place the structures of knowledge that enable young people to grasp abstract, metaphoric, symbolic types of information. The capacity for abstract thinking developed as a result of the natural concrete processes that have been going on for millions of years. The danger here is that the computer, which operates by the same artificial, cathode-ray-tube technology as the television, will interrupt that development."
Famous PEOPLE Players
We encourage you to check out the Famous PEOPLE Players in Toronto this summer. This unique experience in black-light theatre exists thanks to the talent, dedication and vision of its founder, Diane Dupuy. It is the first theatre in the world dedicated to people with special needs. From their web site:
Famous PEOPLE Players opened the first dinner theatre dedicated to people with special needs where the veteran performers who no longer perform could further enhance their life skills. Actor Paul Newman who had become a big supporter and fan of Famous PEOPLE Players, generously underwrote the restaurant through the sales of Newman’s Own products.
Single adult tickets for the dinner theatre are approximately $47.00. They offer reduced rates for children, seniors and groups. Check out their web site at:
www.fpp.org
You can read Diane’s inspirational story in Throw your Heart Over the Fence by Diane Dupuy (Key Porter Books)
Address:
Dinner Theatre
110 Sudbury Street
Toronto, Ontario
Tel: 1-888-453-3385
SERVICES
We highly recommend craniosacral treatment offered by Russell Mater. From his web site:
Prayerful touch and gentle osteopathic manipulations come together in Craniosacral Therapy. Russell Mater, B.Sc., B.Ed., has been using this gentle, effective therapy at his Guelph office to facilitate healing and relieve pain in infants, children, and adults since 1998. Craniosacral Therapy is gentle, soul-centred bodywork that is excellent therapy for brain and spinal cord injuries, autism, traumatic births, whiplash, lumbar/sacral/coccygeal
pain, post-traumatic stress, post-concussion syndrome, post-viral
disorders, learning problems-ADD, TMJ pain and other chronic situations
in people of all ages.
Russell also has an office in Toronto.
For more information, go to his web site at
http://russmater.tripod.com/redroad/
Russell can be reached at
519-767-2992, or at
russmater@hotmail.com.
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